The year 2017 is drawing to a close and with it comes the opportunity to be accountable for our accomplishments and our failures. Personal Accountability is a huge part of living a beautiful life and thriving. Each of us must learn to be objective and delve into our personal accountability. Training ourselves to brush off our failures by accepting the lesson we takeaway from the experience. In turn, enjoy a brief celebration of our successes. Both Success & Failure bring lessons and opportunity for growth; each giving us the motivation and skills to refocus for the new year, to be a better version of who we are today. Be Real, be brave enough to be authentic, to create the best version of you each day, each year.
Earlier this year I was taught today’s message by one of my peers in Real Estate, George Morris.The 6 Rules come from a Steve Harvey guest, Bishop T.D. Jakes. George is the co-founder of Century 21 Everest Realty Group based in Salt Lake City, Utah. Century 21 Everest Realty Group was started just 8 years ago and during their 6th year, they earned the ranking and bragging rights of being the #1 Century 21 Brokerage in the World. With Century 21 being the most recognized Real Estate Brand worldwide, they could simply state that, Century 21 Everest is the #1 Brokerage in the World, no other brokerage under any brand is equal. Booyah! George is an incredibly focused and accountable leader. He and his partner John Ciet send out every weekday morning a motivation, leadership driven voice message to all the staff and agents under their branding umbrella, Century 21 Everest. One of these messages is where I am pulling my thoughts for today’s blog post.
There are 6 Rules to being Accountable & Successful in living a Thrive Focused Beautiful Life:
- OWN YOUR HAPPINESS. Happiness isn’t something that you need to buy, or get from someone else. Happiness is something that’s inside of you. Learn to and practice, or indulge in frequently the things that bring you Happiness. Allow your self to live in that moment and allow the Happiness to sink into your inner self, your soul. To Breathe in that moment and let it fill your whole being.
- CHALLENGE YOUR STORY. If we are the Author to our story, our lives, then why oh why would we ever let it be mediocre? Challenge yourself; Challenge your story. Create a story worth retelling long after you are gone from this life. No one that is personally accountable gets up in the morning and says, “Today I am going to strive to be mediocre.” And yet, too many of us do just that day after day. Get Up, Make Your Bed, Put in Your Exercise, Eat Focused and Smart, Be Human-Kind. Challenge yourself to tell your best story ever!
- ENJOY THE JOURNEY. Too often we don’t allow ourselves to enjoy the happiness of the journey in getting to our destination. A yogi once ended a practice I was in attendance to with this thought, “Give thanks to your body for all it gave to you during this morning’s practice; Namaste.” I was so focused on the thought of “just get me through this”, so I can “loose these few pounds and sweat off this remaining fat storage”, that I had not taken the real message from that practice; my body is a miracle and I need to celebrate and give thanks for the journey of all I ask from it in my striving to be the best version of me.
- PUT “ME” ON YOUR CALENDAR. You are the most important person in your life. You must learn to put you first on your day. Whether it is a meditation practice, a workout, a swim, hike, run, climb or ride, or whatever it is that you need to be taken care of, make sure that you put YOU on your calendar and participate in the activities or pampering that you need to make sure that your are at your best for all those others that depend on you to be such.
- MAKE RELATIONSHIPS COUNT: GOD, YOURSELF, YOUR LOVES. This really needs no further explanation. Make time for and appreciate all those in your life that love you, and that you love. Give them the time, the words, the effort to show that you are grateful for them. Nourish and protect, value your healthy relationships. Drop, walk away, or if need be- get away from those that do not bring love to you.
- BALANCE WORK WITH PLAY. T.D. Jakes, “If all you do is play and you don’t work, then you gonna be the fun guy, but you also gonna be ornery.” It is true that money does not buy happiness, but then neither does having no money. From the notebook sized book, THE FIVE LESSONS A MILLIONAIRE TAUGHT ME ABOUT LIFE AND WEALTH, by Richard Paul Evans comes this in regards to being wealthy or poor, “Will you be the one who helps others or looks to others for help? It’s your choice. You can be part of the problem or part of the solution. If you want to be the later, then listen carefully, because what I have to tell you today will change your life. Decide to be wealthy, then create a plan and put it to work to create that life.”
Merry Christmas! Happy Holidays! Happy New Year! And may each of us get to work on creating a better version of us in 2018. Create a life that is Thrive Focused and Beautiful enough to influence others to choose the same for themselves.
Here is the link to the interview on Steve Harvey if you would like to watch it yourself